Who’s My Enemy?
There’s a joke I’ve heard since I was a kid. A man arrives at the gates of heaven, and St. Peter asks, "What’s your religion?" The man replies, "Methodist." St. Peter checks his list and says, "Alright, head to Room 24, but please be very quiet as you pass Room 8." Soon, another man approaches. "What’s your religion?" asks St. Peter. "Lutheran," the man responds. "Go to Room 18, but again, be sure to stay quiet by Room 8," St. Peter instructs. A third man comes to the gates. "Religion?" St. Peter asks. "Presbyterian," the man says. "Go to Room 11, but make sure to keep it down when you pass Room 8." Curious, the man asks, "Why do I need to be so quiet near Room 8?" St. Peter leans in and whispers, "Well, that’s where the Baptists are, and they think they’re the only ones here.”
Of course, this joke always got a laugh because the baptists were the punchline of every church joke. When service finished early it was so we could beat the baptists to church. One thing I’ve had to come to grips with is that these jokes, while entirely meant to be light hearted and fun with no nefarious intentions, helped me to form an unconscious bias against the baptists. They became the enemy denomination. As a a result, I can list off several issues I have with the baptist theology and how I think they have horrible practices.
But one thing I want to be adamantly clear about, Baptists are not the enemy. While we disagree on several fronts, they have the same goal as Methodists do: to make disciples of Jesus Christ. I think you would find that we have far more in common than we have differences, it’s just that we take so many of our similarities for granted. I mean, when’s the last time you even thought about the fact that we both worship on Sundays instead of Saturdays? While that seems like a weird thing to bring up, there are other denominations that vehemently disagree with us about worshiping on Sundays. They aren’t the enemy either.
What is easy to reason out but hard to live as if it were true is that most people are not our enemies. It feels like the stakes in the denomination disagreements are small so it’s easier to talk about, but the hard truth is that those whom you disagree with politically are also not your enemy. You may think that you couldn’t possibly agree with anything that the other party stands for, but I would like to believe that if you had an honest, non-confrontational conversation with them, you would find that some core goals are still the same even if their approaches are diametrically opposed. Just like Methodists and Baptists both have a mission of making disciples, both major political parties are trying to create the best America they can.
With that being said (even if not believed), John Wesley gave us three rules for how we should vote. And as we enter into the final stretch before the election, I particularly hope that we can live into number three.
To vote, without fee or reward, for the person they judged most worthy;
To speak no evil for the person they voted against;
To take care their spirits were not sharpened against those on the other side.
Post-Its Have Nothing On You
When you attend one of our traditional services, you’ll likely see Jamel standing there, holding an old red hymnal with dozens of colorful pieces of paper sticking out of the top. These are the Post-it notes he uses to mark the hymns the choir is singing that week, along with some of the other classics we sing often.
Interestingly, Post-it notes were designed for this very purpose. Art Fry, who worked at 3M, also sang in his church choir. Between Wednesday night rehearsals and Sunday morning services, his bookmarks would fall out of his hymnal. One of his coworkers had developed microspheres—a slightly sticky material that easily detached from surfaces. The idea had seemed so impractical that it went nowhere for years until Fry realized this slightly sticky substance was perfect for marking hymns in his hymnal. Now, we see Post-it notes everywhere, including in Jamel’s hymnal.
What stands out to me most about this origin story is that this sticky substance existed for so long and could have easily stayed unutilized. Our lives would be far worse off without Post-it notes (okay, maybe that’s a slight exaggeration). However, I am convinced that each and every one of you reading this blog is far more useful than slightly sticky microspheres. Your skill set, your personality, even just your physical presence in the room makes an impact on the kingdom of God. The big question is whether you are willing to use your gifts in an intentional way. There is a place for you, and even if you don’t see where or how yet, we can help. We’d love to talk to you about putting your gifts and graces to work in the best possible way. Feel free to find one of the staff members, mark your connect card, or even email us.
Let Them Eat Cake
Elijah has to be one of the coolest people in the Bible. I think because we now have the stories of Jesus, we forget how amazing Elijah actually was. When we look at his life, it’s easy to see why people wondered if Jesus was Elijah reincarnated. Raising people to life? Yep. Multiplying food? Yep. Fasting for 40 days? Seems counterproductive to multiplying food, but also yes.
The pinnacle of his ministry is when he faced 450 prophets of Baal in an epic showdown on Mt. Carmel. However, the story that gets preached on the most is when he’s hiding in a cave waiting for the Lord to show up. There was wind, an earthquake, and fire before the Lord showed up in a gentle whisper.
But there are a few verses connecting these two stories that are vastly misunderstood. After Elijah called down fire from heaven and then had 450 prophets of Baal killed, he ran away when he heard that the queen wanted him dead. The usual thought process is that this is Elijah’s biggest failure, that he had just done one of the mightiest deeds and now cowers before a woman (with full misogyny intended by these people).
In recent years, we have become more familiar with a concept known as crisis fatigue. After major events in our lives that cause stress, our bodies will do things to adapt to that stress. Besides the physical changes to our body that can occur, other symptoms include physical and mental exhaustion, changes in sleep, changes in appetite, and feeling numb or empty. Read these following verses with crisis fatigue in mind:
Then [Elijah] went on alone into the wilderness, traveling all day. He sat down under a solitary broom tree and prayed that he might die. “I have had enough, Lord,” he said. “Take my life, for I am no better than my ancestors who have already died.” Then he lay down and slept under the broom tree. But as he was sleeping, an angel touched him and told him, “Get up and eat!” He looked around and there beside his head was some bread baked on hot stones and a jar of water! So he ate and drank and lay down again. Then the angel of the Lord came again and touched him and said, “Get up and eat some more, or the journey ahead will be too much for you.”
I don’t think this passage describes a moral or faith failing on Elijah’s part like most people would have you believe. When you look at it through a crisis fatigue lens, it checks off all the boxes and becomes one of the most natural reactions possible. What I think is most important, though, is God’s reaction to Elijah’s fatigue. There was no condemnation. In fact, in most translations, there was cake. God let him sleep and gave him comfort food. Then there was more sleep and more cake.
For 40 days, God let Elijah recoup before coming to him in that gentle whisper. In that conversation, there was still no condemnation but rather a plan laid out to give Elijah next steps and the promise of help. Don’t freak out if you find yourself having the same thoughts that Elijah had. You are not alone in your feelings, and God has made sure that you don’t need to be physically alone by preparing people to be in your life to support you. And if it helps, apparently eating cake is a God-approved means of recovery.
Unsung Heroes
Every once in a while, a certain phrase drives me into a tailspin of overanalysis. Today, that phrase is “unsung heroes.” I probably don’t have to explain what an unsung hero is, but today my mind wandered to what a sung hero might be. It's probably a reference to some Greek hero or another ancient culture where stories were told, sometimes literally by singing them. But then, if I tell a story about an unsung hero, wouldn’t that make them a sung hero just by the act of me telling their story? Naturally, I had to Google the etymology of "unsung hero" and sift through the results to confirm my assumptions and understand it fully, all because someone mentioned "unsung hero." My mind is not a fun place sometimes.
Our church is full of unsung heroes. They will remain truly unsung because I can’t carry a tune, but I do have to share how some of these individuals are making a huge difference in our church and our mission of making disciples.
The young adult small group is the most active group and has grown more in the past few years than almost all our other small groups combined. One of the main reasons for this is their leader, who is the most proactive about personally inviting people to join. It doesn’t hurt that they also have some of the best snacks.
We have a father/daughter team that runs our media and lights for both services every week. Since I have been here, they have volunteered for over 1,000 church services, showing up for rehearsals during the week and arriving hours before everyone else on Sunday mornings.
One of our video producers has helped train a dozen volunteer camera operators, is committed to excellence, and is one of the most grace-filled people I’ve ever worked with. He was also the pivotal voice that convinced our church to fully invest in a robust streaming design instead of just getting by.
Speaking of the camera operators, every single one of them is committed to creating the best possible online experience. They know it is perhaps the only means of worship for some, but more importantly, it is the first experience many people will have with our church. They are such amazing volunteers that they are constantly sought after by other ministries because they are fully invested in the mission of making disciples.
I can’t even begin to do justice to the next-gen volunteers. These are the ones who have volunteered in youth ministry for decades, love the cry of infants, can listen to a toddler explain the war between diesels and steamies, or the amazing volunteers who take a week of vacation just to lead a small group at VBS.
There are the greeters who make people feel welcomed as soon as they step into our sanctuary, the ushers who just make things happen, and the coffee fellowship volunteers who show up early to make sure we’re caffeinated, help us treat guests well, and ensure everyone has a chance to have a conversation with someone.
On any given Sunday, I can name over 70 volunteers who give their time and talents to the church to help us make disciples. This doesn’t include the paid staff or all of the volunteers and committees who work throughout the week to make sure the AC is working, bulletins are made, and people are prayed for.
Don’t get me wrong, we are incredibly blessed to have those 70 volunteers, and it might sound crazy to ask for more, but 70 isn’t enough. Many of our volunteers serve in multiple capacities. One of our youth-aged volunteers arrives before 8 each Sunday, runs a camera or fills in for whatever spot has a gap (this guy can do everything and is incredibly smart and humble), either goes to youth Sunday school at 11 or helps run something tech for the traditional service, goes home for a few hours, comes back for youth band practice, and stays for another 2 hours of youth.
So yes, we need you even though we already have 70 volunteers. You can make a difference in our church and be part of our mission of making disciples of Jesus Christ for the transformation of the world. But it’s not just about you serving the church. When you join one of our teams, you also find yourself surrounded by other amazing people. You make meaningful friendships with some of the best people out there.
If you want to help but don’t know how to get started, you can always drop by the church office and talk to one of the staff. We would love to help you find a spot to get plugged in. Mark your connect card, talk to one of the people who are already volunteering, and just ask, "How would I become a greeter?” Joining a team isn’t just about volunteering, it’s about becoming part of our church family and making disciples.
Taste and See
You’ve probably seen them without even realizing what it is you’re looking at. Over the past four years, a company has almost created a whole new identity for themselves and increased revenue by 10x. The only thing they changed was the color of their cup. Ok that might be over simplifying it a bit, but Stanley cups are everywhere now.
Contrary to what you might think, Stanley cups are not the same company as the Stanley tool company. However, they’ve been in business for over 100 years selling camping cookware. Until a few years ago, they were pretty much unheard of. They had a small scattering of business, mostly men looking for adventure gear, but the general public had no clue who they were. Then a few women saw the potential in this product. They got with the executive team at Stanley and convinced them that by just changing colors and convincing them to use social media marketing. Now, everywhere you go you will see these crazy colorful tumblers in the hands of women.
What’s fascinating for me is that Stanley had the right product all along. They didn’t make any engineering changes to their cups, they literally just changed the color to appeal to a different demographic. The cup keeps water just as cold as it did before, a fact that if not true would be disastrous for the cup maker.
This kind of reminds me of Psalm 34, “Taste and see that the Lord is good.” David was inviting people to give God a chance. He knew that that God was good and that when you find refuge in Him you will be blessed. One of the biggest problems then, just as it is now, is getting people to take that first step. We know that God is good, but how do we get people to taste and see? For Stanley that meant changing colors. For us it might mean we leave our comfort zones. Maybe it’s starting with just asking people to try it out (it’s really hard to change anything else if you don’t even ask).